Do We Really Need an Engagement Session? (Spoiler: Yes. Yes, You Do.)

“Oh, I don’t think we want an engagement session…”

“My fiancé HATES having their photo taken…”

“What would we even do with the photos?”

“We’re soooo awkward in front of the camera!”

Sound familiar? If you’re planning your wedding in Rhode Island or Southern New England, there’s a 99.9% chance you’ve said one of those things. And as a professional wedding photographer who literally thrives on capturing couples in their least stiff, most genuine moments, I hear you.

But hear me out: your engagement session is one of the most underrated parts of the wedding photography process.

Let me break down why.

1. It's Not Just a Photo Session: It's Your Bridal Bootcamp

You know what’s weird? Having a stranger follow you around with a camera. Unless you’re a Kardashian, it’s awkward for everyone. That’s totally normal.

But that’s why I offer engagement sessions, not to torture you, but to get all that awkward energy out of the way before the wedding day. It’s your practice round. It’s where you learn my prompts, my vibe, and how I shoot. And it’s where I get to see how you two vibe together.

Are you affectionate and cuddly? Goofy and playful? Secretly obsessed with reenacting your favorite rom-com scenes? This is where we figure that out, so your wedding gallery doesn’t look like a Pinterest copy-paste.

2. You Deserve Photos That Feel Like You

My job is to help you forget that a camera even exists. That’s where my prompts come in, I’ll guide you with silly, easy cues that feel more like hanging out than posing.

Still worried about looking awkward? I’ve got you. You know that Ricky Bobby “what do I do with my hands?!” moment? Been there. That’s why I’m constantly giving direction and letting you be yourselves.

Plus, there’s a 99% chance I’ll do something clumsy or embarrassing within the first ten minutes (just ask the couple whose dog I accidentally called by the groom’s name while making kissy noises...).

3. You'll Thank Yourselves Later

Look, these photos aren’t just for save-the-dates. They become your first real family heirlooms together. And when your wedding day rolls around, you’ll be relaxed, confident, and ready to crush your photo game like the icons you are.

Bonus tip? Engagement sessions are the perfect time to schedule your hair and makeup trial. Why let that glam go to waste? Book your trial, bring your partner, and let’s create magic.

Or, hear me out, book a bridal boudoir session afterward and give your future spouse a spicy lil’ gift on your wedding day. Just saying.

Still Not Sure?

Totally fair. But before you skip it, ask yourself this:

• Do I want to feel less awkward on my wedding day?

• Do I want photos that actually feel like us?

• Do I want to work with a photographer who knows how to make us look and feel amazing?

  
  

If yes, let’s talk. 💌

Engagement sessions are more than just pretty pictures. They’re the start of telling your story, your way.

Ready to book your Rhode Island engagement session?

Contact me here and let’s get planning.